How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 22.06.2025 23:59
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
What are some life hacks for living on your own?
Ask yourself:
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Washington governor activates National Guard in search for accused killer, Travis Decker - KATU
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Ethereum Governance Tokens Spike as SEC Backs ‘Innovation Exemption’ for DeFi Projects - Decrypt
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
One Of The Rarest Video Games Ever Has Been Preserved Online - GameSpot
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Saepe ut vero explicabo illo hic aspernatur.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
One Molecule to Sleep and Wake: A New Brain Switch Discovered - Neuroscience News
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What to know about nerve pain and tingling hands and feet - The Washington Post
Procrastinates a lot.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Why do girls not like some guys at the university?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What I need from you?
Does not procrastinate.
'Cosmic miracle!' James Webb Space Telescope discovers the earliest galaxy ever seen - Yahoo
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Has anyone one 1 cr or 2 cr in Dream11?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.